Navigating the Digital Overload: Protecting Your Mental Health from Social Media News Flooding

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Protecting Your Mental Health from Social Media News Flooding

In our digital age, and in the current world events media, the constant stream of news on social media has become an inescapable aspect of daily life. While staying informed can be crucial, the relentless accessibility and visual impact of news can take a toll on our mental well-being. Especially when the images and videos pop up on our feed without warning or invitation. For individuals seeking to protect their mental health, especially those feeling overwhelmed, overexposed, and struggling with what they are seeing, understanding the potential trauma induced by social media news exposure and adopting mindful practices is paramount.

The Digital Overload: Unveiling the Impact of Social Media News

In the pursuit of staying informed, social media apps expose us to a barrage of news, often accompanied by distressing visuals. For those of us living in British Columbia, where the natural beauty is a stark contrast to the sometimes harsh realities portrayed in the news, this constant influx can trigger feelings of overwhelm, anxiety, and even create vicarious trauma (which is when we have a negative response to being exposed to others’ trauma). The visual nature of social media news intensifies our emotional responses, leaving us grappling with the aftermath of what we’ve seen.

Understanding Trauma in the Digital Age:

  1. Visual Overload:
    • The visual nature of news on social media amplifies its emotional impact. Graphic images and videos can evoke immediate and intense emotional reactions, potentially leading to vicarious trauma.
  2. Constant Accessibility:
    • The 24/7 accessibility of news on social media means there’s no respite from distressing information. The constant exposure can lead to a state of hyperarousal, where individuals are always on edge, anticipating the next distressing piece of news.
  3. News Fatigue:
    • The sheer volume of news can result in news fatigue, where individuals feel emotionally drained and desensitized to the suffering portrayed. This fatigue can contribute to a sense of helplessness and disconnection from one’s own emotions.

How to Safeguard your Mental Health: Strategies for Support

  1. Mindful Consumption:
    • Be intentional about the news you consume. Choose reliable sources and set limits on your daily news intake. This can look like setting a timer on or outside of your devices, or adding apps to your devices that can interrupt your scrolling and help you pause and decide if you want to keep scrolling. These practices can create a sense of control over the information they expose themselves to.
  2. Scheduled News Breaks:
    • Designate specific times for news consumption rather than allowing it to infiltrate your day constantly. Creating boundaries around when and how you engage with news on social media helps in preventing emotional overwhelm. This might look like delaying when you open the apps on your devices until later in the day, or closing your devices for good an hour or more before bedtime.
  3. Balance with Positive Content:
    • Counterbalance distressing news with uplifting and positive content. Follow accounts that share inspiring stories, nature visuals, or content related to your personal interests. This balance can help restore a sense of equilibrium.
  4. Digital Detox:
    • Periodically disconnect from social media altogether. A digital detox allows time for mental recalibration, reducing the risk of news-induced trauma. This could involve spending time in the serene outdoors or engaging in activities or hobbies that bring joy and peace, like reading books, colouring, going for walks, listening to music, or learning something new.
  5. Mindful Awareness of Triggers:
    • Pay attention to your emotional responses when exposed to news on social media. Identify specific triggers that evoke distress and consider muting or unfollowing accounts that consistently produce content that adversely affects your mental health.
  6. Seek Support:
    • Share your feelings with trusted friends, family, or professionals. Engaging in open conversations about the impact of news exposure fosters a sense of connection and understanding.
  7. Do Something to Create Change
    1. If what you are consuming has you feeling hopeless, helpless, overwhelmed, angry, scared, frustrated, or fearful, it can be a sign that what is happening does not align with you and your values. Something that you can do to help yourself feel like you have some control over what is happening, is to do something about it that contributes to change. Sign a petition, go to a rally, or donate to registered, reputable organizations that are sending support to those in need. While you might not feel like your one contribution will make a difference, if many people make one small difference, a lot can change.

Cultivating Digital Well-being: A Personal Journey

  1. Reflect on Your Values:
    • Take time to reflect on your personal values and how they align with your digital habits. Consider what kind of information resonates with your beliefs and contributes positively to your well-being.
  2. Set Clear Intentions:
    • Establish clear intentions for your social media use. Define the purpose it serves in your life and be intentional about the content you engage with. This could involve using social media as a tool for connection and community engagement.
  3. Connect with Nature:
    • Embrace the natural beauty of British Columbia (or where ever you live) as a counterbalance to digital exposure. Spend time outdoors, engage in activities that connect you with nature, and allow the serene landscapes to serve as a source of solace and rejuvenation.
  4. Practice Gratitude:
    • Cultivate a practice of gratitude to shift your focus towards positive aspects of life. Whether it’s acknowledging the beauty around you or expressing gratitude for small moments, this practice enhances your overall well-being.
  5. Digital Mindfulness Techniques:
    • Incorporate mindfulness techniques into your digital routine. Practice deep breathing, meditation, or mindfulness exercises to center yourself and build resilience against the potential vicarious trauma exposure by distressing news.

Conclusion: Navigating the Digital Landscape Mindfully

In the age of digital connectivity, protecting our mental health from the potential vicarious trauma induced by social media news exposure requires intentional and mindful practices. For BC residents, the contrast between the digital deluge and the natural beauty of their surroundings emphasizes the importance of finding balance. By cultivating digital well-being, setting clear intentions, and embracing mindful practices, individuals can navigate the digital landscape with resilience and safeguard their mental health amidst the constant stream of news on social media.

It’s Almost Here!

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It’s almost here! It’s almost here!

I am incredibly excited to share with you some long awaited big news: the Crash Course to Mental Wellness Series is almost here!

After going back to work put a year-long delay in launching – the time has finally come back around, and this time it’s better! It’s better because it is redesigned to serve you for your specific needs!

This offering now comes as a mini series of 6 different topics to support your mental wellness- anger, anxiety, stress, depression, mindfulness, and grief.

Want to learn more about it?

Originally designed as one big course, I recognized that not everyone needs or wants all of the information. You, for example, might be interested in one or two of the topics but not all of it. So why would I overwhelm you with a bunch of information you didn’t want?

Instead, I have redesigned the information to be shared in 6 different mini courses. All online, all go at your own pace, and all set up in an easy to read, easy to learn and practice way.

In this series I share my most favourite skills to practice myself, and with my one-to-one clients.

Think if it as a series of counselling sessions at the comfort and leisure of your own pace and time – no need to have a scheduled appointment! You can do this whenever it suits you best.

If you would like to get on the email list to be notified when the courses go live – sign up here! I can’t wait to share this information with you!

This week was a lot

This week was a lot.

There were a lot of dates and information in the media this week. We have been made aware of annual dates of awareness and remembrance, possible changes in the legislation that could lead to devastating results, and really tough days to navigate. My hope in highlighting some of them that it will bring awareness to a lot of what has been on each of our minds this week and what you can do to help cope with the overload. 

Mental Health Awareness

It started off with the beginning of Mental Health Awareness month in the US, and Mental Health Awareness week in the US. A great campaign to bring forward the importance of taking care of our thoughts and emotions. 

MMIWG2S

Then the National Day of Awareness for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls and Two-Spirit People (MMIWG2S). A day established because of Hanna Harris, a citizen of the Northern Cheyenne Tribe, who went missing on July 4, 2013 and was found dead three days later by volunteers. May 5 was chosen by the National Indigenous Women’s Resource Center (NIWRC) as it was Hanna Harris’ birthday. 

Roe v. Wade

And we can’t forget the devastating news coming from the US Supreme Court appearing poised to strike down Roe v. Wade, the legal case establishing the right to an abortion, resulting in a cascade of proposed restrictive abortion legislation.

Mother’s Day

And today is Mother’s Day in Canada. A day that can feel so great for those with mothers or who are mothers.

Mother’s day can be a source of great pain and difficulty however for:

  • Those who are longing to be moms
  • Those whose babies died during gestation
  • Those whose children have died
  • Those who do not have access to their children
  • Those who have strained relationships with their moms
  • Those who have strained relationships with their children
  • Those whose moms have died

Ongoing worldly concerns

All of this is of course on top of the ongoing wars and access restrictions, the ongoing discovery and count of unmarked graves at former Residential School sites, ongoing issues with access to clean drinking water on Indigenous lands, discrimination, inflation, a housing crisis, gas prices and oh yeah – the pandemic. 

How to cope

It’s A LOT! Maybe even more than you feel you are able to manage at the moment. 

So what can you do to cope?

Here are my top encouragements:

  1. Take a break from social media and news outlets. This can be incredibly helpful in the moment. Pausing your access to current events and information can reduce stress and feeling overwhelmed. Take as much time as you can (a day, a few days, a week, whatever works for you).
  2. Do whatever it is that soothes you. Self-care, self-care, self-care here folks! A bath, a walk outside, knitting/crochetting/quilting etc, arts and crafts, puzzles, a massage… the options are endless, and the benefits are tremendous.
  3. Connect with your supports. You are not meant to live this life alone, or to manage everything by yourself. Connect with those who make you feel good and who can support your need for a pause from current events.
  4. Reflect on where you live and focus on what impacts you directly (for now). It can be really helpful and important to reflect on where you live when hearing everything that is going on in the news. With modern technology it can feel like current events are happening directly to you when they aren’t. You can ask yourself: Where in the world am I right now? Is that happening in this country/city/etc right now? What do I need to do to stay safe?
  5. Create change or give back. Feel called to change what is happening around you or in the world? Take that motivation to make change and impact the lives of others for the better! Find places to volunteer, donate, or create a change you see is needed. 
  6. Have fun! You’ve heard me say this before – having fun is the easiest and quickest way to fill our cup of capabilities and resilience. It’s important that you have fun to fill your cup so that you can continue to make a difference in your life. 

If you are struggling at all with what is going on in the world, I hope this helps. And for those experiencing any difficulty with Mother’s Day, may you feel supported and connected as you navigate the day as best as you can.

Let’s stay connected!

If this is something that you are struggling with, and would like to work on it with a counsellor, visit the Contact Me link on my website to schedule an appointment today.

If you want more information, skills and support with your mental health, make sure to sign up for my email list to hear about my upcoming online Course in Mental Health!

Know someone who might benefit from reading this information? Feel free to share this with them, and encourage them to sign up for my blog emailed directly to them!

And don’t forget to follow me on Instagram or Facebook @devanceciliacounselling for daily supports and information!

 

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Pick Me Up!

Ever need a Pick Me Up?

Have you even needed a mental pick me up? A change of thoughts? Or a shift in mindset?

I know I have! And music has regularly been that supportive pick me up when I needed it.

When I had my first child I really wanted to create a set of songs that could do that for them. A playlist that they could play to remind them of their strengths, capabilities and help build their confidence; all while shifting negative thoughts and feelings that might be present.

Thich Nhat Hahn said “If you really know how to live, what better way to start
the day than with a smile? Smiling helps you approach the day with gentleness and understanding. Smile with your whole being.”

So we play this set of songs every morning because it makes us smile, it helps build skills, and it shift our moods.

*Happy bonus: not only does it help my kiddo, it helps me too!

Now, I’m not one to keep such helpful things to myself, so I’m sharing it with you all here!

Below is the list of songs currently on the playlist. I hope these songs help shift moods and builds skills for you!

Songs

Try everything – Shakira

How far ill go – Auli’i Cravalho

A Million Dreams – Ziv Zaifman, Hugh Jackman

Get Back Up Again – Anna Kendrick

Beautiful- Christina Aguilera

Never Ever Give Up – Matthew West

Born This Way – Lady Gaga

I AM WOMAN – Emmy Meli

Happy – Pharrell Williams

Cloudy Day – Tones and I

Brave – Sara Bareilles

Fight Song – Rachel Platten

This Is Me – Keala Settle

Mind My Business – Travis World

Live Your Story – Auli’i Cravalho

Got any songs that help you or your kiddos? If would love to know about them! Help me grow our playlist and pick me up songs! Feel free to send me an email and let me know what you’re listening to when you need a boost!

Let’s stay connected!

If this is something that you are struggling with, and would like to work on it with a counsellor, visit the Contact Me link on my website to schedule an appointment today.

If you want more information, skills and support with your mental health, make sure to sign up for my email list to hear about my upcoming online Course in Mental Health!

Know someone who might benefit from reading this information? Feel free to share this with them, and encourage them to sign up for my blog emailed directly to them!

And don’t forget to follow me on Instagram or Facebook @devanceciliacounselling for daily supports and information!

Photo cred: C D-X